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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 02:29

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

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His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

I write beautiful poetry .

How should one handle a situation where they suspect their partner of cheating, but their partner denies it and claims it is all in their head?

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

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Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

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What did i know ?

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

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I have no regrets .

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

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She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

So whats the point in blame.

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She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

I have been married for 34 years, and I found out my wife lied, and cheated a lot back before we got married. Does she not change, or is it possible she is still a cheater?

I was scared of men, in general

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Comes on , in middle age.

Why do I randomly start sweating a lot in public (while waiting in line, in a new class, etc.) then start sweating more because I’m embarrassed that I’m sweating so much? Is this social anxiety?

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Have you ever had sex with sisters?

It was going to be , some day.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

She was in good health!

Im still living with it.

I could never make a relationship work though!

And i lived it daily.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

I know ,a lot about trauma.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

I couldn’t, believe it.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

All the time i was locked up.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

As i do to all so called friends.?

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

And who doesn’t know suffering?

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Why did i forgive my father ?

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

She loved him until the end.

He knew the spot.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Ive learnt so much.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

We all went to grammer schools

He was dying to do it , i knew.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

So, i spoilt her more .

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

Who then, do I blame.?

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

Was to survive, this bastard.

Put me off passion for life!!

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

One cannot live in the past .

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

When she asked me how she looked .

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Especially a lifetime of it.

I will be 64.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

I don,t even have a pension.

She married twice! .

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

But, we were locked up after school.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

He resisted the act ,that day.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

She wouldn,t have been !

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

(And it was in our own minds.)

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

I said to her

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

I think the readers, may guess!

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I had hoped to write a book about this .

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

My family never makes their pension either.

But ive been too sick for many years..

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

On the 31st of Jan this month .

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I waited trembling.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

This is how, and why children get BPD.

I was very sick at this time too.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

I was 9 years of age.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

My life is so biszare .

I was seconnd youngest,

I never cut or harmed myself..

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

This is soul school!.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

But it wasn’t much.

We were not on the streets..

She found it foreign!.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Would this be the day?